Talking to someone close to me over the last few days has pulled together several strings of thought I’ve had ongoing in my head for a couple of weeks now. We were discussing a rl family member and how seemingly perfect they were at being a good husband, father etc. It got me thinking how impossible you make life for yourself if you compare yourself to others without knowing the full story. Of course my friend only sees what the family member wants them to see. Is it really likely that this person is perfect all the time? Do they lose their temper sometimes. Do they shout at their kids or partner because they are tired or stressed? Probably. You just don’t see it. We all aspire to being a better person, parent, lover, friend etc but if we set our sights on the impossible we are doomed to feeling inadequate.
This tied in with some other thoughts I had about people who speak out on subjects that they know little about because they only ever hear one person’s ‘side’ and yet they happily blather on in their fog of knowing ignorance. The people I admire and respect the most know that there are always three sides to every story…one side, the other side and the truth and keep their traps shut unless they are absolutely positive that they know all the aspects of all three.
About The Stuff:
I’m wearing a two piece outfit from Ascend which is a new release at Shiny Shabby. It’s called Amina and comes with denim pants and a tucked in open shirt. Both items come in 5 standard mesh sizes, Maitreya Lara and Slink Physique and Hourglass mesh body fits. There are plain ripped pants and also some special versions available with the cartoon patches as seen in the pictures above.
The cute charm necklace is from Etham at the Whimsical Event. Etham are best known right now for male mesh clothing but I understand that the brand did originally start out as an accessories creator so he’s gone back to his roots for this gacha set of animal charm necklaces.
Body – Slink Hourglass
Head – Catwa – Destiny
Eyes – IKON – Sovereign Eyes
Ears – Mandala – Steking Ears
Hair – EnVogue – Casandra **NEW** at Fetish Fair
*Outfit – Ascend – Amina **NEW** at Shiny Shabby
*Shoes – fri.day – Honey Platforms
*Necklace – Etham – Charm Necklace – Puppy RARE **NEW** at Whimsical Event
Piercings – Cynful – Ness Cleavage and Navel Piercing **NEW**
Location – Blithe – Distillery **NEW**