Reflect not Deflect


Ok we’re back to deep and meaningful today! Have you ever met one of those people who has a lot of drama around them but nothing is ever their fault? They really are quite common in Second Life and one of the most common character traits they show is the deflection of anything negative. They are never wrong…never! They speak and act with little thought for other peoples feelings but will be the first to be butthurt over the slightest negative comment toward them. It’s exactly the behaviour you see from the ’45th’ and it’s a serious personality flaw because people like that lack humility.  If you never believe you’re wrong you can never work on improving yourself as a person. You can’t analyse and learn from the mistakes and errors you make as we wander through life trying to do the best we can.  I was talking to a friend yesterday about how as I get older the less tolerance I have for people like the ones I have described above. There was a time that I would have invested to much time and effort into trying to help them understand the impact of their actions but I really have got to the point where life is just too short.

About the Stuff:

I’m always grateful when creators send me review copies of items and I was looking at these jeans on Flickr and as I turned back into my SL viewer window there they were! Perfect timing. Now, I personally favour a high waisted look to my jeans, and shorts for that matter, and I also much prefer a more casual boyfriend style pair of jeans so these were practically made to my ideal specification. They come in a range of blue, grey and black denim textures with a separate belt attachment and in fits for Slink Hourglass and Original as well as Maitreya Lara (worn) and a Fitted Mesh for other bodies.  These are available at a new event called Rewind ‘a 90’s throwback event’ that opens tomorrow 10th Feb.

I love a good short hairstyle and they are often few and far between but Wasabi Pills has a couple of stunners out there at the moment including Tara which is available in all their regular colour and shade packs at the current round of FaMESHed.


Head – Catwa – Destiny

Skin – The Skinnery Maitreya applier and Grace Head applier

Hands – Vista – Bento Prohands

Rings – Vista– Absolut Vendetta – Hydra Rings

Piercings – Swallow – Bollywood

Top – Villena – Turtleneck Crop Top

*Hair – Wasabi Pills – Tara **NEW** at FaMESHed

*Jeans – MINIMAL – Monica Jeans **NEW** at Rewind (from 10th Feb)

Necklace & Earrings – LaGyo – Cross Earrings and Crosses necklace

Bracelet – Enfant Terrible – L’odeur du cuir Bracelet

*Glasses – [Z O O M] Wlou Glasses **NEW** at FaMESHed

*K & S – Independent

Location – TaKe Heart

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