Thoughts of You

Compliments are hard. Not giving them…receiving them. I was explaining to a friend last night that I find it incredibly difficult to know what to say other than ‘thanks’.  My first reaction when being complimented is to deny and find someone or something else that should be complimented other than myself.

I think it’s a mix of being British and a strict childhood where compliments were few and far between to non-existent in my life.  I can’t recall a single instance from childhood within the family home. I’ve talked a lot in the past abut how driven that’s made me in life and in SL to prove myself. With that comes the ‘downside’ of compliments. Don’t get me wrong, I like the recognition….but I don’t necessarily like being told about it. I’ve literally fake ‘afk’d’ when being complimented in SL because that’s how uncomfortable it makes me feel.

I wish I could feel more deserving of praise, or more gracious in acceptance of compliments but I think i’m probably too long in the tooth to change much now.

These are the random mind wanderings for today – Sady will be pleased.


Head – Lelutka – Simone 2.7 Bento

Skin – Glam Affair Luminay Applier

Hands – Maitreya Bento Hands

Ears – Mandala – Steking Ears

**RE** Amira Arm Bracelets **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Belly Chain **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Foot Bracelets **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Head Chain **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Leg Chains **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Rings RARE **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Swimsuit Bottom – RARE **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Swimsuit Top – RARE **NEW** at The Epiphany

**RE** Amira Thigh Chains **NEW** at The Epiphany

Hair – Entwined. –  Lexie **NEW** at The Epiphany

*Entangled Poses

Apple Fall – Ram Chaise

One thought on “Thoughts of You

  1. I am pleased! I’m also going to torment you….cuz you are amazing! You’re an inspiration! You rock the kasbah, Baby!!! You know I can do this all day with you, right? *hugs you tight* You’ll always know that I adore you and think you’re wonderful,might as well accept it. ♥


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