The Best You

I made a decision a few days ago that will probably have some repercussions but the more I think about it the more I know it’s the right choice for me. Throughout my life, rl and sl, I have put other people’s happiness and feelings ahead of my own. Often to my own detriment. I’ve sucked it up and told myself it’s fine, I can deal with it. That it is better to just rise above something that causes me unhappiness so that others aren’t upset. This time I have put my own needs first. Today will be hard enough without putting myself in a situation that will make things worse…a situation that would cause me irritation, annoyance and upset. It’s my day. For once I will put myself first.

What I am blogging today:
I’m wearing a horde of items from the current round of Collabor88, literally from the skin up! I’m wearing Glam Affair, of course with the Damsel hair from Tableau Vivant. I am a fan of side swiped hair so of course, I fell in love with Damsel. I styled the outfit from Pixicat’s Blazer which I love for the power shoulders and the flared out waist. It looks amazing with the matching skirt as you would expect but I’m super fond of Rowne pantsuit sets so when I saw pants from Rowne I had to see if they worked together – and they do!! The look is completed with accessories from Random Matter which have options to change the metal and colours of the gems so I could accessorise to own choice.

*Head – LeLutka – Nova 1.0 **NEW** at Mainstore

*Skin  – Glam Affair – Ella **NEW** at Collabor88

*Freckles – Glam Affair – Ella Freckles **NEW** at Collabor88

*Hairbase – Tableau Vivant – LeLutka HB 10 **NEW** at Anthem

*Hair – Tableau Vivant  – Damsel **NEW** at Collabor88

Piercings – [ kunst ] – Basil Septum

Earrings & Necklace – random Matter – Yashir  **NEW** at Collabor88

Glasses – MINIMAL – Rx Glasses

*Top – Pixicat – Elegant Blazer **NEW** at Collabor88

*Pants – Rowne – Boehr Crepe Trousers **NEW** at Collabor88

*Pose – Lyrium – Sarah **NEW** at Dubai

Location – Insilico

2 thoughts on “The Best You

  1. You know something, Love… those who truly care about you and your feelings should never wish for you to put yourself in any situation which causes YOU to do anything, or be in a state which is negative for you. I know you wouldn’t wish that on others… so you look after your feelings and smile! ♥♥

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  2. I know exactly what you are talking about and I’m proud of you. I know its not easy, but you should never knowingly put yourself in a situation that is unnecessarily uncomfortable.. This is YOUR day and you shouldn’t have to deal with anything you don’t want to deal with.♥


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