Daydream

I can be a bit of a daydreamer and find it all to easy to disappear off into my own little fantasy world…after all that’s partly what Second Life is right? I remember as a child how much I wanted magical wishes to be true. The fairytale idea of getting three wishes that would come…

My Sadybutt is NSFW

If you know her, you know she’s not safe for work! I’ve talked before about my inner circle – it’s very small and at the very centre of it is Sady (Sadystika)…or as I call her Sadybutt. So, when I heard that Phedora were releasing a set including panties called Sadystika it was my first…

If it makes you happy

Life is too short to do things that make you unhappy…I think most people can agree on that point. It’s also too short to invest time in talking about things that you don’t like or make you unhappy.  There is nearly always a positive way to look at most situations…yes, even some of the most…

Sunday Girl

I like order, and routine…pretty sure that’s not going to surprise people that know me well. I have to be organised and methodical in approach to my rl and sl tasks in order to get things completed and it works for me most of the time. Until, that is. the proverbial spanner gets thrown in…

Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Some, in fact most, people don’t like conflict. The majority of us don’t court controversy. However, a lot of us, if need be, will stand up for our views and opinions if necessary. We all have to face situations in our real lives, and Second Lives, that we know will bring us into conflict because…

Someone watching over me

This may sound from the first paragraph that it’s going to be a depressing post…it’s really not, bear with me…there is light. Two major life events happened for me in a matter of days in the first week of October, 1991. On the Monday I found out I was pregnant and on the Sunday, just…

Happy Birthday Cynful!

Quick post to tell you all about the fun and shenanigans that will be going on today at the Cynful. There’s lots to celebrate as the store turns 8 years old and opens a new mainstore on the same day! There’s 6 hours of tunes from 3 of Second Life’s best DJ’s and gifts galore…

Looking for some Hot Stuff?

How important is how an avatar looks to you? I feel like it shouldn’t be an issue but in all honesty, it is right? It certainly shouldn’t be the only issue but it is still a consideration if you become close, or intimate with someone.  I invest a lot of time and money in how my…

Slow Burn

My blog post the other day about about male types you encounter in Second Life seemed to go down well. I had lots of messages on Facebook and in world asking me to write more on the subject and I am sure I will…trust me, I get plenty of examples and experiences with guys I…

Proceed with Caution: Starting to Date in SL

I have a friend who has recently found herself in the situation of being single in SL after a very long time of being in a relationship. I know from experience that can be a hard transition, especially if you enjoyed the comfort and security of a monogamous SL and suddenly have to start thinking…

Fringe Benefits

I really enjoyed doing the vlog yesterday and I have more planned but I am going to mix it up with doing regular blog posts too for now. Part of the reason for that is that I have a routine and plan in place for blogging and while I quite enjoy change I have to…

Free from the all the pain, Free from all the game

Why is honesty such a difficulty for a large number of people online? Now, there are several degrees of deceit, a spectrum if you will. It seems to me that sometimes people want to please so they tell you what they think you want to hear. We can call them white lies and I think that…