Reflecting

I saw somebody this morning posting a very true description of how it makes you feel when you have been betrayed by someone. This post isn’t going to be about that specifically but more about something they said within their post and that is that just because you treat people well, with respect and with…

Standing on the Rails

Sometimes you have to take risks and if you’re strongly risk averse, as I am, that can take an incredible amount of courage.  I like to be sure, and, not just a 90% sure…100% sure of almost everything in my life before I do something. Of course, when you’re that sure of something then it’s…

The Daily Dilemma

What to Wear? Well, yes, that’s always a challenge and there’s often two outfits at least to be planned, one for blogging and one for wearing…though I kept this outfit on all day! But, there’s a nother decision to make every day and that’s what attitude you’re going to have today. Do I think you…

Beautiful Disaster

This was fun! As i mentioned yesterday my SL is all about fun right now. This weekend it’s muggy and raining on and off where I am but honestly feeling pretty buoyed up by life.  I have an opportunity in my real life job that should be coming to fruition over the next few weeks…

Daytripping

I haven’t blogged for a couple of days for a number of reasons. I’ve had this post set up and ready to go for a few days but apparently Flickr has been on the ‘blink’ and, as most bloggers will tell you, you just might as well not bother if you can’t get Flickr to…

Daydream

I can be a bit of a daydreamer and find it all to easy to disappear off into my own little fantasy world…after all that’s partly what Second Life is right? I remember as a child how much I wanted magical wishes to be true. The fairytale idea of getting three wishes that would come…

My Sadybutt is NSFW

If you know her, you know she’s not safe for work! I’ve talked before about my inner circle – it’s very small and at the very centre of it is Sady (Sadystika)…or as I call her Sadybutt. So, when I heard that Phedora were releasing a set including panties called Sadystika it was my first…

If it makes you happy

Life is too short to do things that make you unhappy…I think most people can agree on that point. It’s also too short to invest time in talking about things that you don’t like or make you unhappy.  There is nearly always a positive way to look at most situations…yes, even some of the most…

Sunday Girl

I like order, and routine…pretty sure that’s not going to surprise people that know me well. I have to be organised and methodical in approach to my rl and sl tasks in order to get things completed and it works for me most of the time. Until, that is. the proverbial spanner gets thrown in…

Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Some, in fact most, people don’t like conflict. The majority of us don’t court controversy. However, a lot of us, if need be, will stand up for our views and opinions if necessary. We all have to face situations in our real lives, and Second Lives, that we know will bring us into conflict because…

Someone watching over me

This may sound from the first paragraph that it’s going to be a depressing post…it’s really not, bear with me…there is light. Two major life events happened for me in a matter of days in the first week of October, 1991. On the Monday I found out I was pregnant and on the Sunday, just…

Happy Birthday Cynful!

Quick post to tell you all about the fun and shenanigans that will be going on today at the Cynful. There’s lots to celebrate as the store turns 8 years old and opens a new mainstore on the same day! There’s 6 hours of tunes from 3 of Second Life’s best DJ’s and gifts galore…