I May Not Fit in That Box



This week I’ve had several discussions with different friends and I started to think about how we interact differently with different people. Sometimes it’s because those people don’t know us as well as other friends so our guard is more up, or down, dependent on who the person is. Often it’s because of the dynamic of the relationship and factors that feed in to that dynamic for example in my case they could be someone I work with so there’s a professional element to the relationship or someone that’s off the opposite sex but a purely platonic friend or someone that I find myself attracted to in other ways. The way I converse with ‘my gay’ Corban is very different to the way I converse with my friend Jase. My interactions with Corban are way coarser and a lot more flirty because it’s ‘safe’ flirting.  Conversations with my close female friend group could give a gang of dockworkers a run for their money in terms of the subjects and details we go to and the colourful language we use to describe the subjects and each other. On the other hand there are friends who have never heard me swear even in written chat.  So, which of those people is the real me? I think they all are but they are just different sides of my personality. My friends group, the girls, are likely the only people that know ever layer of my personality and see me being different with other people or when discussing other people but that’s when you know you truly have a group of amazing friends who know you inside and out.

About the Stuff:

Love this futuristic look dress from United Colors and as always it comes with lots of fabulous customisation options such as the transparency on the skirt. It comes in fits for Belleza Isis and Freya, Slink Hourglass and Original and Maitreya Lara (worn). I’ve teamed it up with one of the two new releases from Exile at the current round of Collabor88.


Head – Catwa – Destiny

Skin – The Skinnery Maitreya applier and Grace Head applier

Hands – Vista – Bento Prohands

Rings – Vista– Absolut Vendetta – Hydra Rings

Piercings – Swallow – Bollywood

*Hair – Exile – First Dance **NEW** at C88

*Dress – United Colors – Simone **NEW** at The Liaison Collaborative

Shoes – N-Core – Alyssa

Pose – Entangled Poses – Jocasta

Decor – E.V.E Frosted Hearts **NEW** at Linden Labs Shop Your Heart Out

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