Oh Honey, I Don’t Care

Have you noticed how, in both lives, as soon as someone is prepared to stick their head above the parapet, there is always someone willing to take aim and try to pull them back down again? You see it in SL a lot with anyone that tries to do anything new or innovative…everyone is suddenly…

Blogging Applications – Do’s and Don’ts

Trust me, I know how it is. You see one of your favourite stores or events opening blogger applications and you want that assignment so bad! Applications close in a week but you gotta fill that form out right now! In the next 10 seconds….quickly.  Of course, there’s a while to go so you don’t…

Leave it all behind

I had one of those odd days yesterday where I found myself wondering about the ex of all ex’s. Voldemort, as we call him. I remember talking to a friend a few weeks ago who had recently gone through a break up and she expressed how she wished she could stop looking to see if…

Rest and Be Thankful

One man’s rest is another man’s work. We all find different ways to relax and chill out and what works for one isn’t always what is going to work for another. I have a friend that is constantly telling me I need to take more breaks, chill out and enjoy SL. What he doesn’t get…

Fringe Benefits

I really enjoyed doing the vlog yesterday and I have more planned but I am going to mix it up with doing regular blog posts too for now. Part of the reason for that is that I have a routine and plan in place for blogging and while I quite enjoy change I have to…

Kess Gets Dressed – Vlog!

I watched the video about transitioning to vlogging from the Blogger & Vlogger Network talk with Cassie Middles on Saturday as I was unable to attend the full presentation.  I decided that now was the time for me to try out adding more vlogs to my blogs!! I really do believe that vlogging for SL…

It’s got to be….PERFECT!

I always have a tune in my head while I’m blogging and today is no different. The song invading my mind today is Fairground Attraction’s Perfect. It’s been a long while since I heard that tune but I found myself humming the melody while I edited this photo.  See, the person in this photo with…

Skin Deep

My excitement over the upcoming Skin Fair is almost at fever pitch as the launch of one of the most highly anticipated annual events on the grid is just days away! It was actually incredibly hectic weekend for me as we were preparing to launch the brand new Blogger & Vlogger group and website but…

I’m Free To Do What I Want Any Old Time

Don’t be afraid of your freedom! FREEDOM! The lyrics from the Soup Dragons song ‘I’m Free’.  That’s pretty much my Second Life.  I admit it’s partly by choice and partly by circumstance but while we’re admitting stuff I have one to share. I’m pretty lonely in SL. Now, I feel like I have to immediately…

Free from the all the pain, Free from all the game

Why is honesty such a difficulty for a large number of people online? Now, there are several degrees of deceit, a spectrum if you will. It seems to me that sometimes people want to please so they tell you what they think you want to hear. We can call them white lies and I think that…

Lazy Weekend

I had to giggle at the name of the post which is named after the skybox and gacha I’m using for the photograph today.  Anyone that knows me knows that I have no idea how to be lazy in SL! I have a bit of a running joke going with my friend Jase, who is…

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Said

I had a conversation yesterday which got me thinking about how I would frame the thoughts for todays blog. I was talking about past experiences and the other person said a short and very obvious when you think about it phrase ‘abuse is not love’. After everything that happened a few years ago (which you…