Work Hard, Play Harder

Back in the 70’s, and 80’s I think, Mars used the slogan ‘a Mars a day helps you work, rest and play’ in the UK and some other countries too I believe. It’s become one of the most famous advertising slogans and is still remembered today. Several years after they stopped using it a study…

Not a Care in the World

The weekend is almost upon us! It’s been a short week because of a public holiday in the UK and also been super busy in both lives so it’s literally flown by. It literally just feels like yesterday I was starting my week off when actually it was almost 2 weeks ago. Why does time…

Slow Burn

My blog post the other day about about male types you encounter in Second Life seemed to go down well. I had lots of messages on Facebook and in world asking me to write more on the subject and I am sure I will…trust me, I get plenty of examples and experiences with guys I…

Behind the Curtain

We’re all different, multi-faceted people right? I mean, we have our core personality traits and then aspects to our personality that can be drawn out by different people and different situations. Sometimes we hide somewhat ‘quirkier’ part of ourselves to whole groups of people for either personal or professional reasons but it’s always exciting to…

A Different Corner

I attended Wren Noir Cerise’s talk on photography at the Blogger & Vlogger Network last weekend and picked up so many hints and tips on how to set up my photographs. I’ve worked on several shots this week where I know I included many of the pointers she gave us and loved how those photographs…

In League with Lelutka

The Skin Fair is still super busy and it’s a challenge to get in but there is so much good stuff to pick up when you do. There are several new head releases¬†to try out with numerous skins from well known creators as well as some less high profile. Both of the items I’m featuring…

World, Shut Your Mouth!

I don’t know about you but if I wasn’t blogging or doing social media marketing for other SL businesses I’m fairly sure I’d not be logging in to ‘SL Facebook’ much these days. Forget SL Secrets or The Whisperer THE top place for snidy, underhand, bitchiness IS Facebook and the majority of it is from…

B E N T O – Kess Goes Bento!

When Bento heads were first released I went and got the demos for both the Lelutka and Catwa Catya heads. I have always preferred the pre-bento mesh heads from Catwa having had the Jessica head for a long time and switching to Destiny many months ago now. The thing is I was super happy with…

If You’re Lost, You Can Look and You Will Find Me

I’m really enjoying getting back into the blogging swing of things after taking a few days off to work on One Billion Rising. Thank you to everyone who came along or shared posts here and on Facebook! We’re already starting to plan for next years event that will be even bigger and better than this…

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Said

I had a conversation yesterday which got me thinking about how I would frame the thoughts for todays blog. I was talking about past experiences and the other person said a short and very obvious when you think about it phrase ‘abuse is not love’. After everything that happened a few years ago (which you…

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

But if you try sometimes, well, you just might find, that you get what you need. That song lyric has been in my head for a couple of weeks now because it’s really resonating with me and how I approach certain aspects of my Second Life. ¬†For me, the joy of meeting new people and…

The Future’s So Bright I Gotta Wear Shades

  There are lots of things I can rely on my friends to do or say given the opportunity. Top of that list is ‘lower the tone’ (they know who they are and I can assure you they just read that and said to themselves “yups, she’s talking about me” with a broad grin on…