Slow Burn

My blog post the other day about about male types you encounter in Second Life seemed to go down well. I had lots of messages on Facebook and in world asking me to write more on the subject and I am sure I will…trust me, I get plenty of examples and experiences with guys I encounter in SL to write about!

After part 2 of the types blog post I am planning to write about Red Flags and why we ignore them. Sometimes we don’t realise they are flags – we think something they say is just part of a throwaway line and joke. The line “oh, you don’t want to get involved with me, I’m a douchebag” was said to me recently. There was a lol on the end and it was said in a jokey way.  I laughed. They laughed. He was right.

Another one guys say a lot is “I don’t want to hurt you” which you should ALWAYS read as “I am going to hurt you”.  If you let them of course. I’m inserting a totally geeky WoW reference here now, but for any of you that have played WoW with the Deadly Boss Mods add on that line there should be the equivalent of DBM telling you to ‘Run away little girl, run away”

About the Stuff:

Let’s face it ladies, and some men, we all love playing dress up with our avatars. Most of us really enjoy dressing up and putting together looks that are completely different from how we would in real life, and even sometimes in how we would on a regular basis in SL!  My ‘style’ in Second Life for me personally is usually quite casual and 99.9% of the time, as you can see from my photos i’m a redhead. Putting together this look was lots of fun and shows a different side to my avatar.

The outfit is from E-Clipse Design and is available at The Black Fair which opened recently and is a complete all in one bodysuit with zipper detail and boots attached. There’s a colour change hud for the metals and shoe base and it comes in fits for Maitreya Lara (worn) Belleza Isis and Freya and Slink hourglass and original.

I’ve blogged these rings and nails before a few days ago but wanted to point them out to you again as RealEvil has now updated them for Maitreya Bento hands. If you bought them already at this round of FaMESHed simply use the update card that was included in your package and if you haven’t bought them yet…well now you have more reason to!

The Pose Fair 2017 opens in just a few days time and this year is going to be huge with the introduction of Bento! My pose today is from GingerFish Poses and is part of one of their exclusive new releases Slow Burn.  GingerFish always goes the ‘extra mile’ when producing the packs and in these you will find regular and petite poses plus mirrors of all poses in the pack. They are perfectly rigged to work with all Bento mesh hands and definitely value for money.


Head – Lelutka – Simone 2.5 Bento

Skin – Lara Hurley and Iza Lelutka Applier

Hands – Vista Prohands

Eyes – IKON – Hope

Ears – Mandala – Steking Ears

*Rings – RealEvil – Elektra Nails and Rings **NEW** at FaMESHed

* E-Clipse Design – Jin  Outfit **NEW** at The Black Fair

Truth Hair – Grecia

*Pose – GingerFish Poses – Slow Burn **NEW** at The Pose Fair (From 14th April)

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