When it’s hard to say no

The fine line between trying too hard and getting it just right is something I’ve been struggling with for a few weeks now…well probably longer than that but it’s become apparent to me over the last few weeks. A friend referred to me as a ‘typical overachiever’ a short while back and it’s stuck in my head. My work ethic goes right back to my childhood when I tried hard to overachieve for ‘good’ attention from my parents.  I also find it extremely hard to say no to someone when I know, or think, that I can help them. I can be guilty of taking on too much and affecting the quality of my own SL experience because of it. I find that preferable to affecting someone elses. On the few occasions I have said no to something, whether that be blogging or a work project, I feel awful. Not just a little bit bad, but really awful. I am getting better at saying no, but I really need to work on the feeling so bad about it. Your suggestions, as always, are welcome if you have any tips on that!

About the Stuff:

I have a confession! Sometimes, when I blog things, I find out new information I didn’t already know that I can also then share with you. Like, for instance, I had no idea that The Dressing Room was still ongoing. TDR-Fusion, as it was known ‘back in the day’ used to be a regular on my monthly shopping routine, and, I’m not even sure why I didn’t think it was still a thing but I’m really happy to find out it is. How did I make this discovery? Because the dress I am wearing today from Cynful is available at the current round.  I tp’d over to the event to check it out and to make sure it was still the TDR I remember…where stores and creators could sell a retexture/recolour or a product they have previously released a  huge discount. Cynful has three new colour options of the super sexy Tangled dress available at the event at a discounted price of L$99 and there’s still lots of customisation options to change the colours and textures on the metals, the outline, strings and undies!

Credits:

Head – Lelutka – Simone 2.7 Bento

Skin – Lara Hurley and Iza Lelutka Applier

Hands – Vista Prohands

Ears – Mandala – Steking Ears

Piercings -^^Swallow^^ Bollywood Septum Ring & Piercings

*Rings – RealEvil – Elektra Nails & Rings

*Hair – Wasabi Pills – Avery **NEW** at The Chapter Four

*Shoes – NOIR – Sophie Heels **NEW** at Kinky Event

*Dress – [Cynful] Tangled Dress at The Dressing Room

*Pose – Entangled Poses – Hermione **NEW** Mainstore Release

SAYO – Biscayne Backdrops – Selfie **NEW** at N21