The Daily Dilemma

The Daily Dilemma

What to Wear? Well, yes, that's always a challenge and there's often two outfits at least to be planned, one for blogging and one for wearing...though I kept this outfit on all day! But, there's a nother decision to make every day and that's what attitude you're going to have today. Do I think you [...]

My Sadybutt is NSFW

My Sadybutt is NSFW

If you know her, you know she's not safe for work! I've talked before about my inner circle - it's very small and at the very centre of it is Sady (Sadystika)...or as I call her Sadybutt. So, when I heard that Phedora were releasing a set including panties called Sadystika it was my first [...]

If it makes you happy

If it makes you happy

Life is too short to do things that make you unhappy...I think most people can agree on that point. It's also too short to invest time in talking about things that you don't like or make you unhappy.  There is nearly always a positive way to look at most situations...yes, even some of the most [...]

Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Some, in fact most, people don't like conflict. The majority of us don't court controversy. However, a lot of us, if need be, will stand up for our views and opinions if necessary. We all have to face situations in our real lives, and Second Lives, that we know will bring us into conflict because [...]

Someone watching over me

Someone watching over me

This may sound from the first paragraph that it's going to be a depressing post...it's really not, bear with me...there is light. Two major life events happened for me in a matter of days in the first week of October, 1991. On the Monday I found out I was pregnant and on the Sunday, just [...]