A Roadtrip Through the Mind

A Roadtrip Through the Mind

What a crazy journey that would be full of twists and turns!!! Would I ever reach the destination? When it comes to my mind it might be a bit of a mystery tour at present. Somedays you wake up knowing exactly where the journey is taking you and sometimes a few detours really knock the [...]

Relationships – Should you Trust From the Start?

Relationships – Should you Trust From the Start?

Trust is a word that has featured a lot in several conversations the last few days both in SL and in RL. Trust is an anomaly, it's something so simple and fundamental and yet complex and multi-layered and you can't have a relationship, of any kind, without it. That Man Has Guilt Issues My rl [...]

It’s the Most Wonderstress Time of the Year

It’s the Most Wonderstress Time of the Year

I know I am not alone in finding the pressure piled on as we approach the Christmas season. In real life there is the shopping for presents and food, making sure the house is ready for the impending guests. There's work parties, secret santa gifts, food to prepare ahead of time, cards to write, gifts [...]

Have you seen ‘Christmas Offence’ with your own eyes?

Have you seen ‘Christmas Offence’ with your own eyes?

Last week I had quite a long and heated conversation with a friend about wishing people 'Merry Christmas'. He works in a customer facing environment and said that every year up til now he had passed on the greeting to people in his store, or on the phone, at the end of each conversation. But [...]

What Is the True Meaning of Christmas to you?

What Is the True Meaning of Christmas to you?

I am missing a major event in my Christmas calendar this year. Every year for the last 3-4 years the company I worked for organised a Christmas Dinner at a local homeless charity. The majority of the staff helped out. The night before we'd be roasting turkeys and peeling vegetables ready for the day ahead. [...]

We’re All Warriors

We’re All Warriors

To say that I have been overwhelmed with the response to my post '5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist' would be the understatement of the year! I've been contacted in world, on facebook and through the blog by people in varying stages of the same kind of relationship. [...]

5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist

5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist

Right this very second there are thousands of people in 'SL Relationships' across our virtual world which all have different dynamics, boundaries and levels of intimacy. This post is not about the rights and wrongs of an SL relationship but to help the few people out there that probably already have concerns about the 'state' [...]

Love, I Get So Lost Sometimes

Love, I Get So Lost Sometimes

I'm not gonna lie...this week has been tough on my emotions and my patience...and Lord knows I didn't have a whole heap of the latter in the first place! I talked a few weeks ago about the shocking news that a cousin of mine had passed very suddenly in Egypt. She was buried the next [...]