The Daily Dilemma

The Daily Dilemma

What to Wear? Well, yes, that's always a challenge and there's often two outfits at least to be planned, one for blogging and one for wearing...though I kept this outfit on all day! But, there's a nother decision to make every day and that's what attitude you're going to have today. Do I think you [...]

My Sadybutt is NSFW

My Sadybutt is NSFW

If you know her, you know she's not safe for work! I've talked before about my inner circle - it's very small and at the very centre of it is Sady (Sadystika)...or as I call her Sadybutt. So, when I heard that Phedora were releasing a set including panties called Sadystika it was my first [...]

Someone watching over me

Someone watching over me

This may sound from the first paragraph that it's going to be a depressing post...it's really not, bear with me...there is light. Two major life events happened for me in a matter of days in the first week of October, 1991. On the Monday I found out I was pregnant and on the Sunday, just [...]

Proceed with Caution: Starting to Date in SL

Proceed with Caution: Starting to Date in SL

I have a friend who has recently found herself in the situation of being single in SL after a very long time of being in a relationship. I know from experience that can be a hard transition, especially if you enjoyed the comfort and security of a monogamous SL and suddenly have to start thinking [...]

Free from the all the pain, Free from all the game

Free from the all the pain, Free from all the game

Why is honesty such a difficulty for a large number of people online? Now, there are several degrees of deceit, a spectrum if you will. It seems to me that sometimes people want to please so they tell you what they think you want to hear. We can call them white lies and I think that [...]