Reflect not Deflect

Reflect not Deflect

Ok we're back to deep and meaningful today! Have you ever met one of those people who has a lot of drama around them but nothing is ever their fault? They really are quite common in Second Life and one of the most common character traits they show is the deflection of anything negative. They [...]

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Said

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Said

I had a conversation yesterday which got me thinking about how I would frame the thoughts for todays blog. I was talking about past experiences and the other person said a short and very obvious when you think about it phrase 'abuse is not love'. After everything that happened a few years ago (which you [...]

I Don’t Know What It Is but Sometimes It Escapes Me

I Don’t Know What It Is but Sometimes It Escapes Me

I had a huge crash yesterday. Not in SL but personally. I think it was a combination of the highs of the Christmas period and 'coming down' from the combination of stress, excitement and fun along with a few things not going my way that let to an almighty downer which manifested itself as a [...]

A Bun in the Oven

A Bun in the Oven

Today is going well so far and completely to plan. Most of the house is clean and tidy, the last lot of laundry is in the dryer, I've lit the Christmas candles and the scent of vanilla and nutmeg is dancing delightfully around the house with the aroma of the cinnamon swirl buns I have baking [...]

Santa Baby…I’ve Been an Awful Good Girl

Santa Baby…I’ve Been an Awful Good Girl

I talked earlier in the week about Christmas songs and Santa Baby has to be up there as one of my favourites. The song was in my mind as I took this picture. Everything is a bit of a blur at the moment as the rush to get ready for the Christmas season takes grip. [...]