A Roadtrip Through the Mind

A Roadtrip Through the Mind

What a crazy journey that would be full of twists and turns!!! Would I ever reach the destination? When it comes to my mind it might be a bit of a mystery tour at present. Somedays you wake up knowing exactly where the journey is taking you and sometimes a few detours really knock the [...]

Relationships – Should you Trust From the Start?

Relationships – Should you Trust From the Start?

Trust is a word that has featured a lot in several conversations the last few days both in SL and in RL. Trust is an anomaly, it's something so simple and fundamental and yet complex and multi-layered and you can't have a relationship, of any kind, without it. That Man Has Guilt Issues My rl [...]

It’s the Most Wonderstress Time of the Year

It’s the Most Wonderstress Time of the Year

I know I am not alone in finding the pressure piled on as we approach the Christmas season. In real life there is the shopping for presents and food, making sure the house is ready for the impending guests. There's work parties, secret santa gifts, food to prepare ahead of time, cards to write, gifts [...]

Have you seen ‘Christmas Offence’ with your own eyes?

Have you seen ‘Christmas Offence’ with your own eyes?

Last week I had quite a long and heated conversation with a friend about wishing people 'Merry Christmas'. He works in a customer facing environment and said that every year up til now he had passed on the greeting to people in his store, or on the phone, at the end of each conversation. But [...]

So, Tell Me, Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?

So, Tell Me, Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?

I was reminded of this song this weekend as I watched Strictly Come Dancing (the only reality show I watch and admit to be totally addicted to!) The lyrics of the song really resonated with me in light of my previous posts about Narcissism and some of the comments that I read here and on [...]

What Is the True Meaning of Christmas to you?

What Is the True Meaning of Christmas to you?

I am missing a major event in my Christmas calendar this year. Every year for the last 3-4 years the company I worked for organised a Christmas Dinner at a local homeless charity. The majority of the staff helped out. The night before we'd be roasting turkeys and peeling vegetables ready for the day ahead. [...]

We’re All Warriors

We’re All Warriors

To say that I have been overwhelmed with the response to my post '5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist' would be the understatement of the year! I've been contacted in world, on facebook and through the blog by people in varying stages of the same kind of relationship. [...]