I May Not Fit in That Box

I May Not Fit in That Box

  This week I've had several discussions with different friends and I started to think about how we interact differently with different people. Sometimes it's because those people don't know us as well as other friends so our guard is more up, or down, dependent on who the person is. Often it's because of the [...]

Reflect not Deflect

Reflect not Deflect

Ok we're back to deep and meaningful today! Have you ever met one of those people who has a lot of drama around them but nothing is ever their fault? They really are quite common in Second Life and one of the most common character traits they show is the deflection of anything negative. They [...]

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Said

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Said

I had a conversation yesterday which got me thinking about how I would frame the thoughts for todays blog. I was talking about past experiences and the other person said a short and very obvious when you think about it phrase 'abuse is not love'. After everything that happened a few years ago (which you [...]

The Beauty Battlefield

The Beauty Battlefield

I talked over the weekend about how I would rather lose my sight than sound. It got me thinking as I was writing it about how that might work in SL. After all what most people, including myself, enjoy about SL is the ability to make our avatars a gorgeous, slim, physically attractive version of [...]

I Wanna Live in a House, a very Big House in the Country

I Wanna Live in a House, a very Big House in the Country

So I bought myself a larger house than I usually go for. I love decorating so I'm half excited at the thrill of digging through my inventory and unearthing some buried treasures now I have space for them and half nervous of the time it's going to take me to get going. The great thing [...]