So, Tell Me, Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?

So, Tell Me, Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?

I was reminded of this song this weekend as I watched Strictly Come Dancing (the only reality show I watch and admit to be totally addicted to!) The lyrics of the song really resonated with me in light of my previous posts about Narcissism and some of the comments that I read here and on [...]

What Is the True Meaning of Christmas to you?

What Is the True Meaning of Christmas to you?

I am missing a major event in my Christmas calendar this year. Every year for the last 3-4 years the company I worked for organised a Christmas Dinner at a local homeless charity. The majority of the staff helped out. The night before we'd be roasting turkeys and peeling vegetables ready for the day ahead. [...]

We’re All Warriors

We’re All Warriors

To say that I have been overwhelmed with the response to my post '5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist' would be the understatement of the year! I've been contacted in world, on facebook and through the blog by people in varying stages of the same kind of relationship. [...]

5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist

5 Signs That You Might Be in an SL Relationship with a Narcissist

Right this very second there are thousands of people in 'SL Relationships' across our virtual world which all have different dynamics, boundaries and levels of intimacy. This post is not about the rights and wrongs of an SL relationship but to help the few people out there that probably already have concerns about the 'state' [...]

Love, I Get So Lost Sometimes

Love, I Get So Lost Sometimes

I'm not gonna lie...this week has been tough on my emotions and my patience...and Lord knows I didn't have a whole heap of the latter in the first place! I talked a few weeks ago about the shocking news that a cousin of mine had passed very suddenly in Egypt. She was buried the next [...]

SLEtiquette – Why is it so hard for some people to grasp?

SLEtiquette – Why is it so hard for some people to grasp?

Anyone that knows me knows this is a subject that I can bang on about ad infinitum and I'll try not to do that to you today. I also don't want this to come across as 'newbie' bashing because while a lot of the behaviour I'm going to cover is often seen by newbies to [...]